“It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured.” 1 Corinthians 13:5
Jesus came to the Earth to die for our sins. His ministry was of reconciliation. Once the sin was confessed, it was forgiven, and healing would take place. However, we get in the way of that. We say we forgive but we hardly forget.