“But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.” Galatians 5:15
Confrontation is a part of life. Some people avoid it; others engage happily. There are times, where we will have conversations with people, who want to suck the energy out of us. Try to avoid having your power from getting sucked out of you!
Many years ago, I was the office manager for a Family Practice Physician. When people are sick, it can bring the worse out of them. Add in, owing money for services rendered, makes people even more upset.
I had to deal with a trying patient, who owed a large balance. She began to argue with me. I said, “the doctor deserves payment for the services you used, so how would you like to take care of this payment, today?” She tried to rile me up. I paused and repeated the same thing. After the third time, I replied, “since you cannot speak to me politely, you have a choice, you either pay now over the phone or by 5:00 p.m. Otherwise, you will be sent to collections since you are 180 days past due. The choice is yours.” Thankfully, she paid. She tried one more jab and said, “I don’t want to be a patient here.” I told her, ‘“sounds great! Let me know when you decide for sure so that I can assist you,” and I hung up the phone.
It is never easy to deal with people who have messy lives. They want to blame everyone for their unfortunate situation and bring everyone down with them. Your energy and health will suffer when you try to converse with people like this. It is just not worth it. God wants us to have healthy boundaries with unhealthy people. It is not our burden to try and save everyone; only God can do that if they want it. Free yourself from any unnecessary drama.
Lesson Learned: Do not engage with people who are energy suckers.
“Dear Heavenly Father, give me discernment when I deal with difficult people. Remind me not to get involved with the drama of the situation. Help me be a light to those who need you. In Jesus’ Name, AMEN!”